for all of you separated by international borders, seas, oceans, airports and thousands of dollars… but still holding on!

You know you’re in a Long Distance Relationship when…

* you live simultaneously in two time zones, and have mad urges to ask “my time or your time?” whenever you schedule a meeting with someone

* you spend more time talking to a webcam than to a flesh-and-blood person

* you have a Visit-Sweetie fund that’s almost as big as your student fund

* you’ve developed an intense love/hate relationship with your sweetie’s country/place of residence

* random songs start to speak to you on the radio (“no one ever said it would be this haaaard…”)

* you have a contracted a phobia of kissing couples and want to smack them over the head with a broomstick

* your plans on valentine’s day include talking long-distance for half the night and spending the rest of the time throwing beer cans at passing couples

* every so often you’re overcome with the paranoid thought that maybe, your sweetie is merely a schizophrenic jumble of moving pixels or, even worse, just a figment of your imagination

* people raise their eyebrows when they hear where your other half lives

* stories of how people lived before webcams/wireless internet/e-mail/skype/msn/

1. to learn that when he says it will be okay soon, it will.

2. who will make sacrifices so she will not have to sacrifice.

3. to teach her that her value as a person is more than the way she looks.

4. who will laugh at her at the right times.

5. who will always have time to give her hugs and kisses.

6. who does not mind when she steps on his shoes while dancing.

7. who will always make sure she has a place to come home to.

8. who will never think she is too old to need him.

9. to make the family whole and complete.

10. who will not punish her for her mistakes, but help her learn from them.

11. to teach her to believe that she deserves to be treated well.

12. to teach her to accept the differences in others.

13. to teach her to weigh the consequences of her actions and make decisions accordingly.

14. so she will know what it is like to be somebody’s favorite.

15. to tell her truthfully that she is the most beautiful of all.

16. to protect her from scary nighttime creatures.

17. to answer the questions that keep her awake at night.

18. to make the complex simple and the painful bearable.

19. to protect her from thunder and lightning.

20. to teach her that family is more important than work.

21. to be the safe spot she can always turn to.

22. to show her how it feels to be loved unselfishly.

23. to be the standard against which she will judge all men.

24. who will influence her life, even when he isn’t with her.

25. to tell her that all is not hopeless, even when she feels it is.

26. to join her journey when she is too afraid to walk alone.

27. to make the tough decisions for her until she is able to make them for herself.

28. so that she will have at least one hero who will not let her down.

29. to tuck her in at night.

30. to help her take risks that will build her confidence.

31. who will let her know that while she may not be the center of someone else’s world, she is the center of his.

32. to learn what she should expect from her husband.

33. to teach her what it means to always be there.

34. to teach her that a man’s strength is not the force of his hand or his voice, but the kindness of his heart.

35. to teach her to be honest in all her dealings.

36. to help her try again whenever she fails.

37. to remind her of what she may not remember.

38. so that when no one else is there for her, she can close her eyes and see him.

39. to think highly of her when no one else will.

40. to hold her as she cries.

41. to carry her just because she wants to be carried.

42. who teaches her she is important by stopping what he is doing to watch her.

43. to remind her of the comfort of being held near and feeling secure.

44. to teach her to stand up for herself.

45. who gives her refuge in a home secured with faith.

46. to show her that true love is unconditional.

47. to teach her not to let pride get in the way of discovering new things.

48. to show her all the boys are not like the one who hurt her.

49. to stand with her on the day she marries the man she hopes will be just like her father.

50. because without him she will have less in her life than what she deserves.

1) Guys may be flirting around all day, but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about….
2) Guys are more emotional than you think, if they loved you at one point, it’ll take them a lot longer than you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.
3) Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile
4) A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.
5) Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what?..uh…nevermind..” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he’ll assume he did something wrong and he’ll obsess about it trying to figure it out.
6) If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.
7) A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
8) GUYS LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU LOVE THEM!!!
9) Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. They rarely use beautiful or gorgeous. If a guy uses that, he loves you or likes you a whole heck of a lot.
10)If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.
11)If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he’s probably faking it and he is really thinking about something
12) When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is
Guys rarely say that
13)When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me
14)If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn’t happen that often, so when it does, you know something’s up.
15) When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he’s definitely thinking
something.
16) Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them
17)A guy would give the world to be able to read a girl’s mind for a day.
18)No guy can handle all his problems on his own.
He’s just too stubborn to admit it
19)NOT ALL GUYS ARE RUDE!!!
Just because ONE is RUDE doesnt mean he represents ALL of them
20)WHEN A GUY SACRIFICES HIS SLEEP AND HEALTH JUST TO TALK TO YOU, HE REALLY LIKES YOU AND WANTS TO BE WITH YOU AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE
21)Even if you dump a guy months ago and he loved you he probably still does and if he had one wish it would be you to come back into his life.

katanya itu kegiatan yg menghabiskan waktu,,pikiran,,dsb..

tapi.. buat gw itu hal yg ‘cukup’ menyenangkan…

karena semua itu tergantung dari apa dan siapa yg ditunggu..

yg disini bisa maklum kalo yg disana belum dateng..

yg disini tau kok yg disana bakal dateng,,tapi gak sekarang kan??

diminta untuk sabar gk maslah..

gak perlu takut yg disini bakal berubah,, jadi tolong,,yg disana juga jgn berubah..

ini cuma sementara.. dan berpikir klo saatnya bakal dateng..

ad 1 pertanyaan yg gak perlu dijawab,,kenapa gak dari dulu..

yah,, dari awal ceritanya emang udah laen dari yg laen..

‘semua udah ada jalan ceritanya’ ..

kalo nantinya gak sempat ketemu..carilah jalan laen untuk sampe ke tempat yg sama…………..

keberatan??

Tuhanku…
Aku berdo’a untuk seorang pria yang akan menjadi bagian dari hidupku
Seseorang yang sungguh mencintaiMu lebih dari segala sesuatu
Seorang pria yang akan meletakkanku pada posisi kedua di hatinya setelah Engkau
Seorang pria yang hidup bukan untuk dirinya sendiri tetapi untukMu

Wajah tampan dan daya tarik fisik tidaklah penting
Yang penting adalah sebuah hati yang sungguh mencintai dan dekat dengan Engkau
dan berusaha menjadikan sifat-sifatMu ada pada dirinya
Dan ia haruslah mengetahui bagi siapa dan untuk apa ia hidup sehingga hidupnya tidaklah sia-sia

Seseorang yang memiliki hati yang bijak tidak hanya otak yang cerdas
Seorang pria yang tidak hanya mencintaiku tapi juga menghormatiku
Seorang pria yang tidak hanya memujaku tetapi juga dapat menasihatiku ketika aku berbuat salah

Seseorang yang mencintaiku bukan karena kecantikanku tapi karena hatiku
Seorang pria yang dapat menjadi sahabat terbaikku dalam setiap waktu dan situasi
Seseorang yang dapat membuatku merasa sebagai seorang wanita ketika aku di sisinya

Tuhanku…
Aku tidak meminta seseorang yang sempurna namun aku meminta seseorang yang tidak sempurna,
sehingga aku dapat membuatnya sempurna di mataMu
Seorang pria yang membutuhkan dukunganku sebagai peneguhnya
Seorang pria yang membutuhkan doaku untuk kehidupannya
Seseorang yang membutuhkan senyumku untuk mengatasi kesedihannya
Seseorang yang membutuhkan diriku untuk membuat hidupnya menjadi sempurna

Tuhanku…
Aku juga meminta,
Buatlah aku menjadi wanita yang dapat membuatnya bangga
Berikan aku hati yang sungguh mencintaiMu sehingga aku dapat mencintainya dengan sekedar cintaku

Berikanlah sifat yang lembut sehingga kecantikanku datang dariMu
Berikanlah aku tangan sehingga aku selalu mampu berdoa untuknya
Berikanlah aku penglihatan sehingga aku dapat melihat banyak hal baik dan bukan hal buruk dalam dirinya
Berikanlah aku lisan yang penuh dengan kata-kata bijaksana,
mampu memberikan semangat serta mendukungnya setiap saat dan tersenyum untuk dirinya setiap pagi

Dan bilamana akhirnya kami akan bertemu, aku berharap kami berdua dapat mengatakan:
“Betapa Maha Besarnya Engkau karena telah memberikan kepadaku pasangan yang dapat membuat hidupku menjadi sempurna.”

Aku mengetahui bahwa Engkau ingin kami bertemu pada waktu yang tepat

Dan Engkau akan membuat segala sesuatunya indah pada waktu yang telah Engkau tentukanAmin…

Allahu Rabbi
Izinkanlah bila suatu saat aku jatuh cinta
Pilihkan untukku seseorang yang hatinya penuh dengan
kasih-Mu
dan membuatku semakin mengagumi-Mu

Allahu Rabbi
Bila suatu saat aku jatuh hati
Pertemukanlah kami
Berilah kami kesempatan untuk lebih mendekati cinta-Mu

Allahu Rabbi
Pintaku terakhir adalah seandainya kujatuh hati
Jangan pernah Kau palingkan wajah-Mu dariku
Anugerahkanlah aku cinta-Mu…
Cinta yang tak pernah pupus oleh waktu

Amin !
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cewe gak perlu ad di balik layar lagi….. hal itu yg diperjuangkan kartini semasa hidupnya…

karena itu,,sekarang gw dkk maen bola di skul,,untuk menyambut hari kartini,,[dan tentu aj sebagai bntuk penghargaan atas perjuangan.nya]… tapi kemaren,,kelas gw kalah,3-2..!

yah,,gpp kalah sekarang, untuk kemenangan yg lebih gemilang dan pastinya[insyaallah] lebih indah dari yg kemarin ^.^,,amin!..

ngomongin bola,,

pagi tadi[dini hari tepatnya],,MU,a.k.a Manchester United menang di champion league… dengan kata lain, mereka udah meletakkan satu kaki mereka untuk putaran berikutnya..

bagaimana dgan Liverpool?? yup..untuk itu gw tanya sama semua ‘PAGI BERIKUTNYA UNTUK SIAPA?’ ..

as a Liverpudlian,,tentu aj gw dukung Liverpool,walapun sobat gw[ratna],pendukung setia Arsenal,yg tidak lain lawan dari Liverpool pagi besok..

Mengingat Arsenal bukan lawan mudah, gw berharap Liverpool bisa melakukan sesuatu…

gw yakin,,coz they r d king of europe[from england]! knpa bisa bgitu?? 5x menjadi juara di ajang bergengsi kelas internasional,,bukan perkara gampang.. terlebih lagi musim lalu mereka jadi runner up.. bukan gak mungkin klo musim ini giliran mereka yg jadi kampiun,,dgan mental baja,,semangat tinggi khas serdadu inggris,,dan tentu aja faktor keberuntungan,,gelar keenam bisa didapet.! tentu aja setelah melewati hadangan arsenal, dll -_-’……..

yg lebih seru lagi,, nti gw nonton gk sendiri[insyaallah]..

ada seseorang yg bakal ‘nemenin’ gw di depan tv,,melakukan obrolan malam..hahhaha^.^ ..

kemarin MU,,dan pagi ini?? [Liverpool]>>juz hope……

tepatnya siang ini,,

tanggal 31maret 2008………

seseorang hampir tertimpa ‘pohon’ ..

disana lagi ujan,, pulang dgan motornya,, sampe di suatu jalan,,

ada ‘pohon’ retak…….!

gak mungkin untuk berhenti,,tancep gas nambah kecepatan……..

shock bgd………………….pohon itu udah deket [kaya' di film]…………..
Alhamdulillah………………!!

masih selamat…

panik………panik………panik……!

waktu dger berita.nya,,

gimana klo bneran ketimpa?? jgn tanya bakal sesedih ap disini……………………………..

bener2,,Alhamdulillah ya Allah…